Sessions Now Available with Our Love Restore Registered Therapists
All You Need Is Love!
Religious writings, including the Bible, suggest that ‘love is a mystery.’ The authors endeavour to describe and order different kinds of love: friendship love, parental love, unconditional love, erotic love, and a love that is defined as ‘my favourite old shoe’ kind of love. The Beatles made millions singing All You Need is Love. Love, they say, makes the world go around. Well, I know that it makes my world go ‘round. Love for my wife and children, brother and sister, and my entire family of friends brings meaning and fullness to my life. Life would be pretty empty without it. I think I am safe in saying that we all need to love and be loved to be fully human.
But when love seems to evaporate we are left feeling cold and empty. Most people would say that love is far more than just feelings, but take those feelings away and WOW! Look out! We struggle; we might even flounder and fall. How in the world do you get those feelings back? How do you feel the passion you once felt? Can they return? Is it realistic to think that passion can last beyond the honeymoon stage?
Research Discovers Secrets About Love!
When marriage and family researchers drilled down into relationships to discover the secrets of love and how the chemistry of the brain interacts with the thoughts and behaviours of thousands of couples, they found significant help for distant couples. Love feelings can be restored. Many couples we have worked with have openly declared that it has never been better. In fact, scores of couples continue to refer their friends to Bayridge to help them in keeping the fires of passion and love burning.
Marriage is not a static relationship. It must constantly be monitored and tended to. If we don’t take care of our relationships they will deteriorate; they will grow cold. At Bayridge we are relational scout leaders. We can teach you how to start a fire in the pouring rain; we can teach you how to keep it burning in order to keep warm and safe. Let us be the spark. Give me a call! I love fireside chats!
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- We’ve supported 35,000+ individuals
- Completed over 300,000 sessions to date.
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Some couple sucked at arguing! Disagreements quickly turned into power struggles. This can be debilitating. Our Bayridge therapist have the patience and expertise to help you understand your partners underlying triggers with compassion. This can be a game changer.
Who hasn’t said to themselves and perhaps their partner: if my wife/husband ever had an affair on me I would be gone!” Not only do couples not see it coming but they don’t always react like they thought they would. We help people in these situations every single week.
Resourceful and wise couples integrate and invest in a therapist relationship for long-term success. Just as they want a medical doctor or financial adviser to be watching over the most important things in their lives, they see the massive benefits of solid partnerships.
Partnering and marriage can be a difficult but incredible journey. When a couple gets stuck, the last thing they need to do is repeat the same pattern. Like a good golf coach, a therapist can see what a couple is doing that is not productive, so much better than the couple.
Therapists, through their expertise and unwavering acceptance, help you understand the needs of your husband and wife, to help reconnect you with your best friend.
To think that you can learn all there is to know about coupling just through osmosis and observation is underestimating the micro skills required to communicate and problem solve to harmoniously work and live together.
Through every enduring marriage there will be desert periods and rediscovery periods of love and gratitude.
A great marriage therapist has the personal strength to hold space even when the discussions became intense. They then help each one to understand that their partner is fighting hard for you to see what they need. Often it is respect!
Bayridge couple therapists weave ‘firm kindnesses’ into every session to cement each session with respect, allowing partners to hear sometimes difficult truths.
Learning to share with one another without hurting one another is a skill and art of great value.
It is the responsibility of every good partner to care for the condition of the relationship! Passivity, aggression, avoidance, or discomfort are not acceptable reasons not to address issues.